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Life with Two Senior Cats and a Kitten

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Our household is a little unique. I share my home with Lynx, who is almost 19, Kitty Mojito, who is 14, and Nyxie, our 8-month-old kitten. The age gap alone makes for some interesting dynamics, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Living with senior cats means accepting that medications, vet appointments, and careful monitoring are part of daily life. Both Lynx and Kitty Mojito have health issues, so our days are often structured around pills, liquids, special diets, and keeping an eye on how they’re feeling. It can be a lot to manage, but after a while it simply becomes part of the routine.

We’ve also had to make adjustments around the house to help them stay comfortable. Their needs have changed as they’ve gotten older, so we’ve adapted right along with them. Favorite resting spots need to be easier to reach, and their comfort is always a priority.

In the recent months, Lynx has developed some peeing issues, which has led to the ongoing adventure of pee-proofing our furniture. Waterproof covers, washable blankets, furniture protectors, and a lot of laundry have become normal parts of life. It’s probably not the interior design aesthetic I would have chosen, but when you have a cat as special as Lynx, you do whatever you need to do to keep him comfortable.

Then there’s Kitty Mojito.

If she had a vote, she would absolutely choose to be an only child. She’s never been particularly fond of sharing her space with Lynx, even after 7 years, and when Nyxie arrived a few months ago, she made it very clear that another sibling was not on her wishlist. Kitty Mojito spends much of her time looking mildly offended by the existence of the other cats. She tolerates them, but only because she has accepted that her humans are determined to keep making questionable decisions on her behalf. Deep down, she believes all attention, treats, and comfortable sleeping spots should belong exclusively to her.

And then there’s Nyxie, who brings enough energy for all cats combined.

At eight months old, she’s curious about everything, loves everyone, and approaches life with endless enthusiasm. While the senior cats are focused on naps and maintaining their routines, Nyxie is busy exploring, playing, and finding new ways to keep us entertained. She has brought so much joy and laughter into our home, and her affectionate personality makes it impossible to stay stressed for long.

Despite the challenges that come with caring for senior pets, I feel incredibly lucky. There is something special about helping cats through every stage of life, from kittenhood to their golden years. My days are filled with medication schedules, furniture protection, and senior cat care. They are also filled with zoomies, purrs, cuddles, and laughter.

Life with Lynx, Kitty Mojito, and Nyxie can be messy, chaotic, and occasionally exhausting. But it’s also filled with an unbelievable amount of love. I am so grateful I get to be their mama and I wouldn’t change a single thing. ❤️

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How Cats Teach Us to Set Goals Better

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Goal setting is often described as a serious, structured process—lists, deadlines, and measurable outcomes. But sometimes the best way to understand it is by looking at it from a very different angle.
Say… from the floor. Preferably while staring at a sunbeam.

Let’s explore goal setting from two perspectives: a human trying to build a meaningful life, and a cat who has already mastered it!

For humans, goal setting is about direction. We set goals to grow, improve, and move closer to the life we imagine for ourselves.

Humans tend to:

  • Think long-term (“Where do I want to be in five years?”)
  • Break goals into steps
  • Track progress
  • Feel motivated—and sometimes overwhelmed

A well-set goal gives structure. It turns vague hopes into clear intentions:

  • I want to get healthier becomes I’ll exercise three times a week.
  • I want to do better in school becomes I’ll study 30 minutes every day.

From the human point of view, goals are about purpose. They help us stay focused when motivation fades and remind us why effort matters.

Now imagine goal setting as a cat.

A cat’s goals might look like this:

  • Sit in the warmest spot in the house ☀️
  • Obtain food (again)
  • Knock object off table for science
  • Nap deeply and without regret

Cats don’t write these goals down. They embody them.

From a cat’s perspective:

  • Goals are immediate and clear
  • There is no guilt about rest
  • Persistence is natural (meow until food happens)
  • Failure just means trying again later

A cat doesn’t worry about yesterday’s missed nap or tomorrow’s meal. The focus is on what matters right now. And somehow, the goals still get met.

Cats may not use planners, but they understand a few things humans often forget:

  1. Rest is part of progress
    Cats nap constantly—and still manage to be fully functional (and dramatic). Humans often burn out by ignoring rest, even though it fuels long-term success.
  2. Confidence matters
    Cats act like they belong everywhere. Approaching goals with quiet confidence—even before you feel “ready”—can make a big difference.
  3. Adjust without self-judgment
    If a cat doesn’t catch the red dot, they don’t spiral into self-criticism. They simply wait for the next chance.

If cats ever decided to attend a goal-setting workshop, they might benefit from:

  • Planning ahead (food doesn’t magically appear… usually)
  • Sharing goals (instead of staring until humans guess)
  • Accepting that not every goal involves snacks

But honestly, they seem pretty satisfied already.

The best approach to goal setting might live somewhere between these two perspectives.

From humans:
✔ Vision
✔ Structure
✔ Long-term growth

From cats:
✔ Presence
✔ Self-trust
✔ Rest without guilt

Set goals that move you forward—but don’t forget to pause in the sunlight once in a while.
After all, even the most ambitious human can learn something from a cat who knows exactly when it’s time to nap. 🐾